So what about this, Dad?

In the world of parenthood, timing is everything. Just as you think you are in control of a situation the kid factor kicks in to wake you into the reality that parental control is an allusion that requires quick on your feet thinking. As in the rules of the illusionist, timing is everything.
Carl appears to know what he is doing. The star cookie looks perfect.
He is applying frosting in the proper manner probably as he was taught by his mother. He is, as all good fathers, passing down his learned skills to his daughter, Grace. Everything seems to be working within the illusion of concentrated adult knowledge. Then a little hand punches through and challenges. "But, what about this?" Notice Carl's eyes can no longer focus on the cookie. Wallah! Why kids? They are our trainers for quick thinking, concentration amid chaos, and the ability to make adjustments. Wise timing, toughened skin, and a big sense of humor are crucial to survive and accomplish any victory in the gauntlet of Parenthood. It's God's plan for our development. His mercy grants that we start with little children and little challenges then work up to teenagers with big challenges. Finally we are parenting adults with adult problems, the epitome of Heavenly Father's experience. Most people will know their children longer as adults than as children. There is no retirement age to parenthood. Consequently, I am so thankful for the God's plan of eternal progression, forgiveness, and our many chances to get it right. Now that all our children are adults, I want them to know that Dad and I are with them all the way. Our lives have already been so blessed by our life with Grace and we will continue to be blessed by the coming of two and even more grandchildren who will teach us and remind us, "So what about this?" "And a little child will lead them."